“However, to expect the father to “watch” the children in shul while he davens, so MOM can get some rest at home, or prepare lunch without the kids bothering her is not a solution. To bring the kids to shul because they are just so cute and doesn’t everyone want to enjoy your kids as much as you do, is just plain outrageous. And to bring the kids to shul so they can absorb the atmosphere and somehow just feel the kedusha doesn’t work either. Chinuch needs to be really thought out and planned. And you can’t ignore the fact that you are teaching a positive thing on one hand while teaching a very negative thing on the other. The negative being to have the chutzpah to ignore the people around you that you are disturbing and the kavanah that you are literally stealing from them. “
Do we know each other – I could have written that myself!