apushatayid-
Anyone that’s been here long enough and read the shidduchim threads knows that AZ is the head of NASI. When he writes things like “I’m told the full detailed explaination will appear in various newspapers.” we lose respect for NASI and some may write thing that we otherwise would not.
Furthermore, as you can see from my post above- AZ agrees with my list but for some reason he doesn’t want to enforce it on shadchanim before letting them have the list. Makes you wonder…
I’m no expert in shidduchim, the list above is a sampling from the abuse I suffered at the hands of too many ruthless shadchanim, but if everyone would offer their ideas and some experts could see which ones have substance- maybe we could get somewhere.