Reply To: because its easier to criticize rather than empathize

I’ll try to clarify what I meant. Not sure I can though. I noticed that people tell over something that happened, usually a bad situation ch”v or the likes and rather than say oh I’m sorry or Oy how terrible they say something along the lines of well of course that happened you did XYZ and ABC wrong. It says klal yisrael are rachmanim. But but this doesnt seem to match up. MP said something tha makes sense. He said iit might be from the ‘me’ mentality and not thinking about the feelings of the other person.

Youngerman that’s an interesting observation. Didn’t think of it that way. But I have seen woman who jump to blame or deflect emotions too. Can’t say I’ve had experience with men and thie emotions though so I can’t really decide if that’s part of the issue.

Thanx every one for reading this. This issue has been bothering me for a while but it finally got to a point I had to let it out.