minyal gal, that was very nice of you to say! I happen to think very highly of you as well, as you are always polite and always have something nice to say. And welcome back! I haven’t seen you around lately.
Health, I know this might be considered judging, but I knew you wouldn’t apologize to QB. I truly believe that people who always apologize don’t need to, and the people who need to apologize, never do. I hope you prove me wrong by apologizing. And please just read over all the posts here, starting from QB’s first one, until your last one, and think for a moment how your posts come across. You started out by insulting her. Your original post here could have been said much more politely, which would’ve saved much unpleasantness. Then take a look at your second post here. I don’t know what caused you to take the insulting to the next level, but it’s very apparent and seriously offensive. Judging someone to the level of calling her not Frum? Oh my. Then, rightly so, QB felt extremely hurt and “screamed”. Her screaming was justified. She did nothing wrong, and all you had were assumptions which led you to a terrible accusation. And now, in your last post, you use her “screaming” as a way of judging her negatively even more. I am honestly sick to my stomach that a person can go so far, judge so much, and do anything possible to keep themselves from just saying “I’m sorry”. I am ashamed I’m even bothering with a person like that.
I don’t feel good writing such a post, but it had to be said. And kapusta said something very true: It is only one person. QB, I hope you stay.