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i feel as though she went behind my back because….she asked him for money for my shower, i think that is way out of line. i just think its inappropriate and its not the first time, he mentioned once that she asked him to buy something for us. i feel like she is taking advantage of my fiance because he is such a good person and he will always give, hed give the shirt off his back but that doesnt give her a right to ask for it. i feel like she went to far by asking him for money to buy me a present that I DO NOT WANT…wait it gets better….I cant even return it now, wooohooo so im left with a $500 appliance that i dont want, ebay anyone!?!? im just so frustrated with her. shes a really good girl and has good intentions and she worked so hard on my shower and i am so appreciative but ahhhhhhhhhhhh i just cant deal with it anymore i am going to loose my mind!! i feel like if i say anything to her, she will think i am unappreciative. i spoke to my fiance and he said he gave her money because he wants to make me happy, which is really super sweet but i felt like she used him and it just bothers me to no end and on top of that my friends are all fighting with each other over my shower and wedding stuff…so basically the happiest time of my life i am beyond overwhelmed, stressed and sad. i did get a really awesome massage the other day but that was only temporary relaxation…