CS, did it cause a rift between you and your chosson? Did she disclose a secret that you never wanted revealed to him? Is the offense what she told him or the fact that she went behind your back? If the offense is that she caused a problem between you and your chosson then you should take the issue to your Rav and ask him to speak to her because that is serious business. If the issue is that she went behind your back and that is crossing a line of trust with you then I suggest that you speak to her and let her know that what she did was extremely disrespectful to you and to your Chosson. Let her know that she crossed a line and that is totally unacceptable. Let her know that you can’t maintain a relationship without respect. Depending on her response you will have to choose whether you want her in your life or not and whether you want to keep up the friendship.
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