usually when someone hurts my feelings people tell me to confront the person but i never end up doing that.
i end up just thinking about the situation.
one of these may help, they always do for me.
1- realize that theyre just a messenger and HAshem is trying to send you a message
2- you were meant to go through this and every test Hashem gives you , your are able to pass [maybe the test is not to get angry at the person ect.]
3- judge the perosn favorably and think of all possible good reasons why she would have done this [maybe shes having a hard time at home now, or maybe she really wouldnt think it would hurt you ect.]
4- appreciate. [take the time to thank Hashem that this only happened once and b”H you dont have to go through this with all your friends]
5- pray to Hashem to help you forgive the perosn and that it shouldnt happen to you again