Health, you are in a mixed-up and lacking in ahavas Yisroel world. You did not give straight answers to my questions. Your accusations about BTs are false. According to Halocha, if a feloow does aveiros because his Rebbe was mean to him, even though there is a tzad ze’chus, he is still considered a rasha. If a fellow is a tinok sne’nishba, he is bechlal Amisacha. Even if someone is not a tinok she’nishba, you seem to cut much more slack for BBF-reshaim. Why is that?
Plus, according to what you want, how things should go? If a Yid wants to become frum ,he should submit his application along with 10 letters of reccomendation to some commitee. The comitee will decide whether to allow him in or tell him to stay frei.
I understand you had problems with your wife.Do not let that cloud your judgement.
Speak to a Rov about your shittos. I doubt if I should respond to your twisted shittos anymore. We have written enough for anybody to see. The fallacy of your views and the lack of Ahavas Yisroel, that is. BTW, Chofets Chaim has a sefer under that name too.