I consider myself to be a good girl b”h, and I just entered the parshah of shidduchim and I know that there was quite a few boys that were readt to me, and my parents really check into boys, they dont just let me date anyone, all my siblings ka”h got engaged to their first daye- and im not chasidish, just a regular bais yakov girl but very open minded. So when my parents told me that im going to date and all my married siblings did some info and they were all raving on and on about what a great catch he was.I thought I was marrying the boy, and I went on 2 dates, I came home on a high from the 2nd which I thought I went much better than the 1st, and the boy seemed to be pretty intersted. The next day the dreaded call came that the boy wasnt intersted, he dumped me! There was no reasoing that the shadcan gave which was a little queer. But all I can say that I have not gotten over it even though it has occured over 3 mounths ago. The emotional pain I went through is too hard to describe, I was litreally crying for weeks after and I still do. But I guess it had to happen to me and it has definetly taught some lessons that I needed, and my tefillos have definetly gotten much stronger with regard to finding my bashert, so all I can say is that iyh I will get a real catch that will be even better than the fisrt!!!!!!!!
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