I still don’t understand you. Are you saying that like every bocher is gonna be a future Rosh yeshiva and every girl a future rebitzin?
The same way a tamid chochom shouldn’t be shleping a goat in the street doesn’t make it wrong for any person to do so.
It won’t even be considered a Middas Chassidus if yankel the farmer
stopped being seen with his cattle.
A Talmid Chochom has extra behavior requirements and as such must do things differenly than everyone else. Anything pertaining to him, his wife for instance must also consider this and make sure to coincide with his behavior lest it take away from his kovod which is Kavod Hatorah. So If everybody eats in a pizza shop they don’t sit down and eat there to be muvdal, and different from the rest.
If the rest all wore purple he would wear blue or black.
Not because the color purple is assur, just to be different, Muvdal.
Shein; Why do Roshei Yeshiva not wear suits, short jackets?
What’s wrong? Is it Assur? Why cant they wear a suit like everyone else? Why do they have to be different?
Why does a Rebbe wear a fancy Tish Beketsha covered in gold flowers or blue, whatever. Why not a simple black Beketsha? We know who he is, we wont lose him in the crowd.
He sits in a special chair. Isnt that enough?