Reply To: Email to: Mom

Thank you everyone from your well meant thoughts.

msseeker- C’V. She would never lay a finger on me.

Pascha Bchochma-I know she loves me but sometimes when she has hectic days she doesnt think twice of what she says and just says whatever is on her mind. Thats what hurts me. I know I am a little over sensitive ( which probably made me felt hurt even more) so maybe I over exagerated with the name calling. Its still called name calling but not as harsh as you possibly think. There is definantly poor comunication skills. And if anything, I know what not to do, so I wont repeat the cycle. I hope im a little intelligent for that.

Am Yisrael Chai-“No cursing, no stupid faces, less yelling,… no namecalling, no speaking behind each others back”

THIS NEVER, EVER BELONGS IN ANY good relationship, and certainly not with your parent.”

I know. Thats why I want to know how to fix it. Thanks for your advice. (Im not being sarcastic). I might actually send her this email but change it around a little. How can I make it sound less defensive?