Nothing wrong w/ u. everybody has their own pace. Just focus on other important things like getting yourself ready for it, for when you will be ready. Those who worry too much, just end up waiting longer. Just focus on character refinement, work, keeping up with friends. Helping others is a good preparation for when you will be married.
I would also suggest you focus on who you are. (for real)
Being honest with oneself is crucial.
Think about what makes you thrive, what type of home you’d like to have, and in turn what type of guy you need and want, to acheive your goals.
This is advice for you and any other girls your age who are
in the parsha or about to enter the parsha, of shidduchim that is, not parshas Vayetzei, but parshas Toldos.
People are too busy with the “dating scene” as if it’s
some sort of black friday shopping rush, or dash,
focusing on getting a major Metziya, but in the end when they
take it home it has to fit “them.”
There is a very bad return policy, so unless you were aware of this policy before you ran out shopping and did some soul searching to understand what it is you need, and what would fit you,(not your parents or friends) and what would look good on you, and bring out the color in your eyes and heart,
you can really get yourself messed up investing a lot of money, time, and emotion into something that was doomed from the very beginning.
I hope this message resonates with my fellow sisters and brothers
in klal yisroel.
So everyone should be wise as to what they need and hence what they should look for, instead of what they want even if it doesn’t fit.
Oh! in closing “taking a break;” your very normal! Hatzlacha!