Bravo, MP! You’ve said what quite a few of us have said in the past but to no avail.
Since when is onaas dvarim ok?
Disrespect?
Condescension?
Insulting?
Being judgemental?
“Joking” at another’s expense?
One can disagree without becoming aggressive, joke without being insulting, and realize that we are all connected with the same Father.
Part of asking mechila is kabala al ha’asid, changing one’s ways in the future.
I sincerely hope we can all sign the unwritten contract barring these non-Ahavas Yisroel behaviors.
In the zchus of ahavas chinam and bain adam l’chaveiro, may Hashem bless all His children with a wonderful new year with peace on earth.