“best moment” -sounds as if you date for the fun of it… Or you are just starting to get a feel of the waters..
“Whether the look is good or whether something bothers you”- It seems as though you are simply intimidated by good looks.. If you are not a shallow person and are able to look at the serface and beyond it, you will go far. looks that are not to your liking shoukd not be dating material for you at all, just to have a good moment.. you should request a few photos prior to the date… so as not to lead the guy or girl on, when you start dating each other and you like each others personality and the looks are not to your liking…
If a guy/girl is not comforatble on the date to look at the other in the eye while they are talking and have to go on a walk the entire time, to avoid eye contact…- there’s a few issues there… there is no tznius issue when it comes to dating to look at the other’s face!