S2021
I was going to say the same thing.
The last time I got spacey like that in marriage was when my husband dumped buckets of water at me in a fit of rage. I went out with some close friends within days, and was completely “out there”. I was so stunned I couldn’t focus on anything. It’s no joke. Don’t just take your friends (first)word for it. Ask her again at some later point, at a time that’s really conducive to talking and sharing(not when you’re walking around Target together).