Reply To: I need advice on how to handle this please

being very involved in litvish and chassidish shudduchim i can tell u that learning means very diffrent for both sides he said hes gonna learn and probably by his family and friends they all learned for a year or less maybe nobody asked him how long he intended to learn maybe the assummed he would learn forever and im also assuming that ur parents were not so involved in the shidduch cuz y would they take a chassish boy which i think is more the problem for them than anything else (not that there is wrong with litvish and chassidish marring)