“I don’t think it’s right to assume things about the OP, .. I say we drop it. “
Sorry, QB, I was not the one who threw the first punch. The OP said ” frum married guys .. tried chatting me up ” and that puts me and all the other “frum married guys” on the witness stand. So until we determine just how innocent Ms. OP was, I think the case is still open to discussion.
I travel to and from Manhattan by train, and see all sorts of Am Yisroel girls / women. Most of them dress and act in a manner befitting a bas Yisroel.
There are a few though that have a tug-of-war with their hemline (and seem to be losing). This, mind you, by girls davening with a bren. So I ask you, is a woman like that faultless?
True, we do not know what the OP comes to work like. But for her to launch a generalization about “frum married men” is also uncalled for.
OK, now I’m ready to drop it.