coffee addict, where is the lack of tzneyius in having a girl check out prospective husbands? (especially since most probably it would be her parents anyway)
I already quoted the gemara (It’s not a woman thing to go looking for a man, that in and of itself makes it untznius)
coffee addict why is getting an oot er “settling” for something different than you?
adorable considers herself a NYer
there are numerous NYers that don’t want to marry OOTers (different mentality), and if she marries an OOTer than people ask “there are a lot of NYers why did she settle for an OOTer maybe theres something wrong with her?” I’ve heard it before