I don’t like calling anyone out, but I want to show an example:
“of course people can feel embarrasment when they have foolishly invested an illusory persona in an online character”
You see right here, this can offend hundreds of people. Nobody knows what others are going through. The fact that you are not one of these people who are forced to create a fictional persona to deal with life does not mean others who have done this are “foolish”. One thing I noticed that is very lacking in our frum communities is acceptance. Everyone has lead different kind so of lives, been in hard situations. They deal with it the best way they can. We all need to understand that and accept the person for who he/she is.