i didn’t read the other posts so i might be repeatative, but this is the way i look at it:
it takes a lot more from a boy to be a good boy then for a girl to qualify as a good girl.
we expect sooooo much of the boys, and don’t like to compromise on anything.
as for the girls, we don’t expect anything rather it’s either she’s a good girl or not.
what does good in a boy mean? well rounded in every aspect
what does good in a girl mean? well rounded in every aspect
the difference is in the aspects.
boys have musts. the girls don’t