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Sorry for the delay in responding. The weekend got in the way. Here goes, point by point:
“if someone has a degree or a job they are “better” than someone who doesnt?”
No, that’s not what I meant and you know it. If she is 19 and working as a secratary in a 47th street firm, or a salesclerk in a clothing store that’s wonderful. That’s an entry level job, and earning enough money to pay for rent and food and tuition is not on her shoulders. Its on HIS.
“There are plenty of boys who went to school and got some kind of degree.”
Far and few, at least in the black-hat, BMG world.
“Whats wrong with deciding to go to school after learning a few years? “
Nothing. Unless it at the expense of his kids being rasied by a babysitter. Good rule of thumb? Learn for as long as you like; until she expecting. Then its time to be the tatty you claim to be.
Tro11 – Boy, your post looks awfully familar. Not sure what your aim was, but it caught my eye.
And for the record, SHE is never wrong. You just misunderstood her