Shtieger -“I feel more sorry for your (future) wife, who has an abusive husband who shoots insults without thinking!!”
I actually think before I post. I’m glad you love your husband, but why do you hate most men? I wasn’t the one shooting insults -maybe you should re-read your posts. Eg. – “poshut a lowlife”, “real nerd that needs to grow up”. These I’m sorry to say are insults. I might not know whom the guy is, but you do. I was just defending him.
I don’t know how old you are, but I have a lot of insight into people. You learn a lot about people when you’re exposed to life and death, like I’ve been (in the medical field).
I’ll tell you another thing, going around telling e/o about this guy is possibly destroying any chance this guy has to get married. I’m pretty sure you’ve told many people your opinion about him.
I don’t blame my ex so much for my divorce, as much as her friends. Her friends could NOT stop talking about me. E/O uses the excuse Toeles, but in reality this excuse is almost never applicable. See Sefer Chofetz Chaim on Yafeh Shtika!
This post isn’t against all women. There are plenty whom guard their tongue. And I’yh, one day I hope to get remarried!