Sadly we don’t always get to do what we want to. It is frustrating and hard to deal with. But it is just one of those challenges we are faced with that helps build our character and makes us who we turn out to be in the end. You asked a sheilah and you are disappointed. You are not permitted to shop around for a better answer. You asked and your question was answered. Now your nisayon is how are you going to deal with the answer you received.
It really isn’t important what your question was nor why it was answered the way it was answered. The question for now and for the future is what happens when you ask a sheilah and you don’t get the answer you want. What will you do? How will you handle it? Maybe that is the test Hashem is actually giving you. Maybe you were supposed to get this answer just for this nisayon, how you respond when you don’t get the answer you want.
You had the faith to ask the sheila, do you have the faith and bitachon to follow through no matter what?