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popa, I don’t want to reveal here my entire past. All I can say is that it isn’t pretty. I don’t know you or your past, so I can’t judge whether or not it’s the right thing to do. All I can say is that I definitely will share my past with him, but I will probably not discuss some issues. I hear your point about being loved, and I appreciate your concern, but I don’t feel that way. I used to be someone who dwelled and dwelled on the past. Now, I’m in the present and future. There’s no point in re-living those horrible moments when I don’t have to. To me, if he loves me for the wife and mother I’ll be today, it’s enough to prove that he truly loves me.
In any case, feel free to do as you wish;)