600 Kilo bear – “An MO school will not help because it will be too hard to adjust to a completely different framework for someone who has already had adjustment issues.”
While your whole comments are based on what would be the best situation possible, you aren’t living in reality. Reality is most yeshivos will throw out for talking to girls. If somehow you can change this situation, by all means do it. Maybe you can start your own Yeshiva and have more lenient rules. The Frum Yeshivos that I know – won’t allow a boy to talk to girls.
But my comments are based on reality – what is the best in the situation right now. If you want to say the lesser of two evils, fine. Is it better to hang out in the streets or go to a MO yeshiva, where there might be some adjustment issues?