Busy as a bee, your mother gets hurt when you go to others for advise primarily because it’s in her nature to want to do everything possible for her child even if you are not on the best of terms you can never explain to a mother why you should seek advice from anyonelse aside from her. She loves you and wants the best for you and has no other altering motives aside from seeing her child that she helped bring into this world succeed! Your friends might be easier to talk to but at the end of the day everyone has their own agenda! If family is the source of the problem it’s best to speak to a rav or mentor regarding this matter rather than a friend. When it comes to family it is very important that you dont take it lightly. They will always be there to back you no matter what you do trust me it’s in their nature!!! Where as with friends if you do sty unforgiving Chas vechas, it should never happen they are not naturally pulled to forgive and forget as easily as someone that shares the same blood. There is a big diff between loving someone and liking someone…
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