btw – as far as girls not having as much to worry about – i guess you really don’t know much about girls. they have more to worry about – what to wear, how does my hair/make-up/everything else look? am i skinny/pretty/etc enough? girls worry because there are so many more girls out there than boys and also boys can be quite picky with looks. yes it is petty but that’s the reality.
as far as what you should wear – how about go all out and wear black pants and a white shirt? oh yeah – the black hat too.