Reply To: If Im the ony one to give complete down payment to children…

First of all, this marriage is strong B”H, and I dont want it to go in any other drection, ever, B”H.

Throughout this marriage, my side has been the only side giving.

Hey, I can take this money and buy lots of stuff for myself. Many people, much wealthier than myself, have given nothing to their children and live like kings and queens and stand tall and proud among their children and their communities. The children have no choice but to make peace with it.

In my life I’ve seen too many cheery optimists taken to the cleaners and regretting it very badly. But, if thats the way you want to go, Kol Hakovod. I don’t!