” he wants her to cover with a hat and she wants a wig he should go ans ask a rabbi if hes shud break off the eng FOR A WIG to break off the shidduch thats crazyyyy “
” I told him I told like tichels so he said (in an upset tone) if I wanna wear a wig I can. It’s not a normal thing to break a shidduch for such a silly thing. We’ve been together for 3 years; I can’t just say goodbye because of a tichel.”
(Did you mean to say, you DON”T like tichels?)
No, it’s not crazy and it’s not a silly thing. A couple should agree on certain things, or at least agree to work on them. These seemingly minor details are indicators of the larger issues that couples/families deal with throughout the course of the relationship (rather, for the rest of their lives). Go to the rav or the chacham and discuss it, because it will lead into a deeper discussion of the real issues. May you come away from the discussion with a better understanding of yourselves, each other, and what kind of home life you are striving for.