A Kallah could just be scared by the whole prospect of marriage. A relative approached me many years ago at her wedding and told me she was scared. Fear can cause person to look sad and even cry. She may have had a falling out with someone moments before the chuppah, may have had second thoughts (not indicative of a bleak future, just a fearful present)… Weddings are stressful (it’s a production) and can bring out the grouchies in people. I told my relative that fear doesn’t mean there is a problem (unless it has to do with a serious problem with the other person, which she did not have).
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