And yeah, i Have Tynnis against my neighbors who are receiving tomche shabbos (although its suppose to be delivered discreetly) and yet they go to the country, summer trips and get furniture deliveries.
Tomche Shabbos is not food stamps. If you have reason to believe that the family in question should not be receiving Tzedaka, mention something to whomever is in charge and they will investigate.
Food stamps, as Joe points out, follow legalities. One can “bend” the laws to get benefits, just like one can do so to pay less in taxes.