I officially call my MIL Mommy cuz that’s what she asked for, however honestly, I am uncomfortable doing it since we are not so close, so I usually don’t say anything sort of like chesedname said “if i wanted to offer her a drink i would make sure she saw me and said would you like a tea, coffee etc..”
Now my father in law is the complicated part, when my MIL speaks to me about my FIL she’d say “My husband…” or she uses his first name. Isn’t that weird? Well, thats what she does. SO when I refer to him to my siblings in law i say “ur father…”.
Sounds kinda complicated but I guess each family does their own thing.
Please stick to one screen name.