MP – “”Who knows, if it’s meant to be, then it’ll somehow work out.” And I’m wondering, for her sake, is that healthy? If she has me in the back of her mind, won’t that affect her judgement for her future dates?”
Most of the time it’s just a line people use like a cliche. She has no intention of keeping you in the back of her mind. Or perhaps she is thinking like- sometimes people do come back to old Shiduchim. Maybe a couple years down the road, she would reconsider.