If you feel he is moving too fast, let the shadchan know. Or simply say, “wow, this is moving too fast we need to slow down”. Keep the dating to once a week so you have a little control and you pace it. Let him know that he can’t call you unless it is a planned phone call. Let him know that you like him but that you are feeling that he is way ahead of you and you need the time and space to catch up.
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