yy, No one should look down on anyone for any reason. If you feel uncomfortable or looked down on by your current crowd, you are obviously not in the right crowd. Find people with similar goals and ideals to discuss things with. Perhaps you are finding it hard to find the type of boy you want because you are being tied down to a specific group that doesn’t agree with your ideals.
Good luck on finding your partner.
Happy, that is a beautiful poem. Good luck to you as well.