A friend of mine once asked R’ Dishon something similar at a Shabbaton for couples going through infertility. It was R’ Dishon who made the point I said earlier – being angry at God means you realize He’s responsible for it. He said hat doesn’t mean it’s ok – anger is a bad middah, and must be avoided. Bitachon is realizing that everything that happens is the best thing that can happen for you. If we work on our bitachon, we also decrease our anger, because we realize that we should be thankful, not angry, even when something happens that seems bad.
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