Reply To: Why do I feel like I am still trying to Prove Myself to them?

I had a similar problem w a find always judging the garb and the past until I showed her that’s not what counts in life the frumkit and halachos count “not if ur daughter is wearing an undershirt in 90 decrees” but if her daughter was dressed tzious and if she was doing this halachacly correct in kitchen and on shabbos in kitchen and if she would let her kids do things I wouldn’t ….it was a very slow process over a couple of yrs till I got thru that thick head of hers but the point was brought thru loud and clear (it also took a while to stand up for myself)