this is not a valid thread! of course everyone will have a different answer! yes being a mentch will be across the board, but a boy who doesn’t learn all day (altho yes ultimately i do want a learner/earner) does not mean he is not a top guy! same way someone who does learn all day, and never missed a seder… doesn’t mean he is a top boy. and it also depends on where you are coming from and what you are looking for.
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