no its not the same thing. you might have the wrong picture of what her daughter or son is looking for but she knows that if she goes into it with you then shes going to have to argue with you about if thats a “normal” thing to want or not. There is someone that redt me a shidduch but it was totally not for me. Instead of arguing with her I just said that I dont want but thank you. She figured out why I didnt want and started telling me how I’m wrong and its not that way in life….
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