Weasley & Brother, kol hakovod. I just want to say that it’s very important not to jump madregos but to climb slowly up the ladder, so (almost) never should you take the most extreme view. Too many have done that and failed. Second, it’s super-important to find a mentor who understands you and can guide you. There are so many derochim and many well-intentioned people end up with a mishmash of things that sounded nice but don’t work in real life. May you have much hatzlocha!
Mod, if you will allow me, the ‘mainstream’ litvishe shitah is that you wear hose that a viewer can tell are hose, no specific thickness or color. (That viewer is, genreally, a woman, because men are anyhow clueless, same with a sheitel, women should be able to tell you’re wearing one. Will men be able to tell? They shouldn’t be looking so closely anyhow!)