ravshalom – After you clarified your position, I agree with a lot of your post.
Let me clarify my points.
“2.Being able to live in Yerushalayim (a zchus so important that a husband may divorce his wife without a ????? if she doesn’t want to accompany him there)”
This probably doesn’t apply nowadays because we hold that Yerushalyim doesn’t have Kedusha nowadays. See Chasam Sofer.
Also, the Churvos could have been built before ’48.
“The fact is that after 1948 we were not able to, and if not for the ????? of 1967, we would not be able to daven there. Thank You Hashem for what happened in 1967!”
This statement I agree with, but most celebrating Yom Yerushalyim are celebrating the Medina and not Hashem!
Therefore I pondered if someone causes something and they do something to correct it, do you owe them Hakoras hatov?
I doubt it; they caused the Jordanians not to let us in the old city. So no Hakoras Hatov or Yom Yerushalayim or Yom Hatzmos for me!