but I do get on a bus without waiting all day for no women to be at the bus stop, it means the reason is I am a jerk?
PBA, did your Rav give you a Heter that if there are women at a bus stop and they don’t let you on first that you are allowed to follow them on the bus? Did he say that in that case, since you would have to wait a whole day that the halacha does NOT apply? Isn’t it worse to follow a woman onto a bus since basically she is a step above you and basically your face is in her posterior?
PBA, you are starting up with me as usual. A Halacha is a Halacha you either follow it or you don’t. You don’t pick and choose when to follow it. So yes you are a jerk if you don’t always follow it and just choose to follow it for one purpose.