am yisrael chai – i’m addressing you and others who have felt this way. if the cr is important for you and you generally like it, i think it’s silly to stay away from it because 1 or 2 people offended you. (and it’s not really fair to the rest of us who do enjoy yours and some of the others who have been insulted postings).
i really think that no one hurts another person on purpose here. the problem with not seeing faces is that the other person can’t see that they’re hurting you. also, different people have different personalities. so, a manner of speaking that is fun for one person may be insulting for the other person. i think that the best, most healthiest approach (if something really bothers you) is to tell the person, so they and us will be careful of not speaking like that to you in the future.
please don’t leave us. we really do enjoy your posts. and if there are other people who are reading (like “always here”) who are fearful of coming back, just come back. you don’t have to like all of us. just talk to those whom you do like. 🙂