The rush? everyone wants to get engaged quickly. Nobody wants to be the nebach case older girl who places like Nasi have to offer financial incentives to get them dates.
i dont think waiting another 5 dates will make her a nebach case. and is it better to not be a nebach case and be engaged and married while still young if there is a good chance youll be divorced within a few years. i think being married and divorced in your 20’s is more nebach than getting married at 23