smartcookie that is completely wrong. obviously you will get to know the person better because you are spending more time with them. i know people that went to their wedding not being so comfortable with their decision to get maried but they just assumed it will end up working out.
HOW CAN YOU SAY IT WILL WORK OUT ABOUT A LIFETIME DECISION??
its worth dating a few more times to really make sure that its for you. whats the rush???