I am really impressed with how much bad information you all have been able to get before going through with a shidduch. Unfortunately I know of too many cases where they only find out after the marriage…..I wish everyone would be more honest in giving info… though the cases I know of, people wouldn’t be able to give over the info. it was kept top secret. then again it’s the family who is fooling you….
May I ask Aries, are you a professional therapist?