sorry i’m late on responding.
“Are you curious abotu where it says its assur to eat pork with yur wife? Or say loshon hara with yur wife? Or wear shatnez with yur wife? It doesnt say it becuz its assur all the time. So is mixed swimming. It doesnt matter if yur wife is with you or not.”
MOSHEROSE! your argumant mamish is SILLY! pork is assur with or without your wife, so is l”h… you know very well how much sense your argument makes. It’s assur to be with any other women but your wife (daughter, granddaughter, mother, grandmother)and BTW (i didn’t want to post without verifying for sure)- it’s 100% mutar to swim with your wife (obviously ONLY with her.) maybe there are certain restrictions but in general its Mutar. Maybe in your sh”a it’s assur. I’d like to know who says it’s assur. What’s your source – (NOT as in what’s your source that neting is assur!!! PLEASE!!!)