HaLeiVi, really? An innocent conversation can also be “I was so sorry to hear about your ……I hope …..is feeling better. Please wish ………. a refuah sheleimah from me and my family. Or WE were so sorry to hear about the petirah of………………how is your ……………….dealing with it? Is there anything you need or that our family can help with?
There are many innocent conversations, including mazel tovs, condolences, messages, thank yous, etc.