If you say yes to potential shidduchim even if they don’t sound shayach at least you remain on the radar for the shadchanim who are suggesting to you. If you say no they will stop thinking abot you and might suggest guys you would be interested in to other girls and not you since they will think of you as picky and not bother suggesting others to you thinking you will reject them as well. So even if you have to go out with a few not shayach guys it might be worth it for this reason. Also, who knows maybe one of the not shayach shidduchim might be shayach. People are not always like what they appear on paper and if you don’t think its shayach just don’t go out again simple as that. Hatzlacha.
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