Reply To: shabbos invitations

so its not that easy to just go to parents and in laws etc…esp when they either live OOT or are not really shomer shabbos. but what i do is i ask on Facebook if there is anyone that would like to have us and ppl do respond including her. also, she says just come eat by me and you can relax so to say to her that i need to rest and relax doesnt always work…you dont know this girl, she gets upset everytime i say no to her.